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Samskipti eru mikilv\u00e6gasti \u00fe\u00e1tturinn \u00ed starfi leiksk\u00f3lans<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]\u00dea\u00f0 a\u00f0 starfsf\u00f3lk hafi g\u00f3\u00f0 samskipti s\u00edn \u00e1 milli a\u00f0 starfsmenn beri vir\u00f0ingu fyrir hver \u00f6\u00f0rum og vinni saman \u00e1 jafnr\u00e9ttisgrundvelli me\u00f0 b\u00f6rnunum er mj\u00f6g st\u00f3r \u00fe\u00e1ttur \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 b\u00f6rnunum l\u00ed\u00f0i vel \u00edl leiksk\u00f3lanum. G\u00f3\u00f0 samskipti lei\u00f0a af s\u00e9r vell\u00ed\u00f0an b\u00e6\u00f0i fyrir fullor\u00f0na og b\u00f6rn, \u00dea\u00f0 er \u00fev\u00ed st\u00f3r \u00fe\u00e1ttur a\u00f0 fullor\u00f0na f\u00f3lki\u00f0 sem vinnur me\u00f0 b\u00f6rnunum s\u00e9 vel \u00ed stakk b\u00fai\u00f0 til a\u00f0 takast \u00e1 vi\u00f0 starfi\u00f0, hlusta hvert \u00e1 anna\u00f0 og tala saman um \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00e1 a\u00f0 fara a\u00f0 gera me\u00f0 b\u00f6rnunum og gefa hver \u00f6\u00f0rum klapp \u00e1 baki\u00f0. \u00d3s\u00e6tti e\u00f0a stir\u00f0 samskipti fullor\u00f0inna \u00e1 milli lei\u00f0a af s\u00e9r vanl\u00ed\u00f0an allra sem eru \u00ed n\u00e1nu samstarfi vi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 a\u00f0ila. Sl\u00edk samskipti r\u00edfa ni\u00f0ur starfi\u00f0 me\u00f0 b\u00f6rnunum gera \u00feau \u00f3\u00f6rugg og vans\u00e6l..<\/p>\n

Samskipti vi\u00f0 b\u00f6rnin eru ekki s\u00ed\u00f0ur mikilv\u00e6g. Hvernig fullor\u00f0nir talar vi\u00f0 b\u00f6rnin, hvernig \u00feeir hlusta \u00e1 \u00feau, hvernig \u00feeir hj\u00e1lpa b\u00f6rnunum a\u00f0 vinna \u00far hugmyndum \u00feeirra, hvernig verkefni eru l\u00f6g\u00f0 fyrir b\u00f6rnin svo \u00e1hugahv\u00f6tin eflist, hvernig fullor\u00f0nir hr\u00f3sa b\u00f6rnunum, hvernig \u00feeir taka \u00e1 \u00f3\u00e6skilegri heg\u00f0un barnanna \u00e1 j\u00e1kv\u00e6\u00f0an h\u00e1tt, allt \u00feetta og miklu meira skiptir m\u00e1li \u00ed starfi \u00ed leiksk\u00f3la. Starfsmenn leiksk\u00f3lans eru barnanna vegna \u00ed leiksk\u00f3lanum og \u00feeim ber skilda til a\u00f0 bera vir\u00f0ingu fyrir s\u00e9rhverju barni \u00fe\u00f6rfum \u00feess og l\u00f6ngunum.<\/p>\n

Hl\u00fdja og um\u00f6nnum er forsenda \u00feess, a\u00f0 barni\u00f0 n\u00e1i a\u00f0 \u00feroskast e\u00f0lilega.<\/strong><\/span> Til \u00feess a\u00f0 vel megi takast \u00feurfa n\u00e1in tilfinningatengsl a\u00f0 skapast milli barns og fullor\u00f0ins og samskiptin vi\u00f0 b\u00f6rnin a\u00f0 vera \u00feannig a\u00f0 hver og einn hafi r\u00e9tt til a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta s\u00edna sko\u00f0un \u00ed lj\u00f3s. Barni\u00f0 setur allt sitt traust \u00e1 hinn fullor\u00f0na.
\nEn hva\u00f0 er um\u00f6nnun? M\u00f6grum dettur eflaust \u00ed hug a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 a\u00f0 skipta \u00e1 b\u00f6rnunum og sn\u00fdta \u00feeim, gefa \u00feeim a\u00f0 bor\u00f0a, \u00fe.e. a\u00f0 sinna l\u00edkamlegum frum\u00fe\u00f6rfum \u00feeirra. Hugtaki\u00f0 um\u00f6nnun, n\u00e6r yfir heg\u00f0un gagnvart \u00f6\u00f0rum manneskjum annars vegar og heg\u00f0un \u00ed samskiptum vi\u00f0 anna\u00f0 f\u00f3lk hins vegar. A\u00f0 bera umhyggju fyrir e\u00f0a vera umhuga\u00f0 um a\u00f0ra manneskju, felur \u00ed s\u00e9r tilfinningaleg samskipti.<\/span> Me\u00f0 um\u00f6nnum er \u00e1tt vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 annast b\u00f6rnin l\u00edkamlega og andlega, af hl\u00fdju, \u00e1huga og \u00e1byrg\u00f0, \u00feannig a\u00f0 b\u00f6rnin s\u00e9u \u00e1n\u00e6g\u00f0 og a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 sj\u00e1um \u00fea\u00f0 \u00ed augum \u00feeirra a\u00f0 \u00feau leiftri af l\u00edfsgle\u00f0i.<\/strong> <\/span>\u00dev\u00ed n\u00e6r ma\u00f0ur ekki ef unni\u00f0 er me\u00f0 v\u00e9lr\u00e6num vinnubr\u00f6g\u00f0um, eins og t.d. a\u00f0 taka barni\u00f0 og setja \u00fea\u00f0 \u00ed vagninn, \u00e1n or\u00f0a, \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 brosa til \u00feess,\u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 s\u00fdna a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e9r \u00feyki v\u00e6nt um \u00fea\u00f0. Erum vi\u00f0 me\u00f0 athyglina vi\u00f0 barni\u00f0 ef vi\u00f0 erum a\u00f0 skipta \u00e1 barninu en jafnframt a\u00f0 spjalla vi\u00f0 einhvern annan starfsmann um eitthva\u00f0 allt anna\u00f0.<\/p>\n

B\u00f6rn \u00e1 aldrinum eins til \u00feriggja \u00e1ra eru mj\u00f6g upptekin hvert af \u00f6\u00f0ru og vilja vera a\u00f0 „a\u00f0sto\u00f0a“ hvert anna\u00f0 a\u00f0 kl\u00e6\u00f0a sig \u00far og \u00ed. Starfsf\u00f3lk hefur mj\u00f6g oft upplifa\u00f0 g\u00f3\u00f0ar stundir me\u00f0 \u00feeim \u00ed fataklefanum, \u00fear sem \u00feau koma til vinar og segja „\u00c1 \u00e9g a\u00f0 a\u00f0sto\u00f0a \u00feig?“ „\u00c1 \u00e9g a\u00f0 hj\u00e1lpa \u00fe\u00e9r \u00far gallanum ?“ \u00c9g skal reima fyrir \u00feig.“
\n\u00cd samverustundum kl\u00e6\u00f0a \u00feau sig oft \u00far sokkum og sk\u00f3m og \u00fe\u00e1 er yfirleitt eitthvert barn komi\u00f0 til a\u00f0 hj\u00e1lpa \u00feeim \u00ed aftur. \u00deessar stundir eru heilagar og fullor\u00f0nir eiga ekki a\u00f0 gr\u00edpa \u00fear fram \u00ed til a\u00f0 fl\u00fdta fyrir, e\u00f0a a\u00f0 segja me\u00f0 pirring: „Ertu b\u00fain a\u00f0 kl\u00e6\u00f0a \u00feig \u00far einu sinni enn, \u00fea\u00f0 er n\u00fa meira veseni\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00fe\u00e9r alltaf“ . Leyfum b\u00f6rnunum a\u00f0 nj\u00f3ta \u00feessara samskipta vi\u00f0 jafnaldra og upplifa samkennd og vin\u00e1ttu.<\/p>\n

\u00dea\u00f0 er einnig mikilv\u00e6gt hvernig hinn fullor\u00f0ni tekur \u00fe\u00e1tt \u00ed samt\u00f6lum barnanna. Hann kemur inn \u00ed samtali\u00f0 me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 sam\u00feykkja og gefa til kynna a\u00f0 honum finnist merkilegt \u00fea\u00f0 sem b\u00f6rnin eru a\u00f0 segja og hvetur \u00feau til a\u00f0 tj\u00e1 sig \u00e1fram. B\u00f6rnin finna a\u00f0 hinum fullor\u00f0na finnst merkilegt \u00fea\u00f0 sem eitt barn segir og vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 f\u00e1 \u00feau hvatning til a\u00f0 taka \u00fe\u00e1tt \u00ed samr\u00e6\u00f0unum og koma me\u00f0 s\u00ednar athugasemdir. Hinir fullor\u00f0nu hvetja b\u00f6rnin \u00e1fram og samskiptin ver\u00f0a vi\u00f0urkennandi og upp\u00f6rvandi.<\/p>\n

B\u00f6rn \u00e1 leiksk\u00f3laaldri hafa r\u00edka \u00fe\u00f6rf fyrir a\u00f0 tj\u00e1 sig me\u00f0 myndm\u00e1li.<\/span><\/strong> \u00deau yngstu sem ekki eru farin a\u00f0 tala f\u00e1 t\u00e6kif\u00e6ri til a\u00f0 tj\u00e1 tilfinningar s\u00ednar og upplifanir \u00ed mynd. F\u00e6rni \u00feeirra \u00ed skapandi starfi eflir sj\u00e1lfstraust \u00feeirra og styrkir sj\u00e1lfsmyndina. Yngstu b\u00f6rnin m\u00e1la\/teikna oft til a\u00f0 prufa litina, en ekki \u00feannig a\u00f0 \u00feau s\u00e9u a\u00f0 teikna eitthva\u00f0 s\u00e9rstakt. Seinna fara \u00feau a\u00f0 gefa teikningunum heiti og \u00fatsk\u00fdra hva\u00f0 \u00feau eru a\u00f0 gera.
\n\u00cd \u00f6llum samskiptum vi\u00f0 yngstu b\u00f6rnin er mikilv\u00e6gt a\u00f0 hafa \u00ed huga \u00feessa veigamiklu setningu:<\/p>\n

“ \u00c9G GET \u00deA\u00d0 SEM \u00c9G F\u00c6 T\u00c6KIF\u00c6RI TIL A\u00d0 GERA“<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Hugtaki\u00f0 vi\u00f0urkenning beinist a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 vilja \u00ed einl\u00e6gni stu\u00f0la a\u00f0 \u00fer\u00f3un vi\u00f0komandi. Vi\u00f0urkenning er ein mikilv\u00e6gasta forsenda \u00fer\u00f3unar sj\u00e1lfsins. Vi\u00f0urkenning er grundv\u00f6llu\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00e1kve\u00f0nu jafnr\u00e6\u00f0i. Tengslin e\u00f0a samskiptin geta ekki or\u00f0i\u00f0 \u00e1 jafnr\u00e6\u00f0isgrundvelli ef annar a\u00f0ilinn \u00ed samspilinu l\u00edtur \u00e1 sig sem minni m\u00e1ttar e\u00f0a \u00e6\u00f0ri hinum og \u00fe\u00e1 ver\u00f0ur engin vi\u00f0urkenning \u00ed samspilinu. Vi\u00f0urkenning hins fullor\u00f0na felur \u00ed s\u00e9r a\u00f0 vi\u00f0horf hans til barnanna s\u00e9 a\u00f0 \u00feau hafi r\u00e9tt til sj\u00e1lfst\u00e6\u00f0ra hugsana. B\u00f6rn hafa r\u00e9tt til a\u00f0 hafa eigin reynslu og upplifanir.<\/span> <\/strong>Hinn fullor\u00f0ni \u00fearf ekki a\u00f0 sam\u00feykkja \u00fe\u00e6r sem r\u00e9ttar en barni\u00f0 f\u00e6r leyfi til a\u00f0 hafa s\u00fdnar eigin sko\u00f0anir og tj\u00e1 sig um \u00fe\u00e6r \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 vera ni\u00f0url\u00e6g\u00f0ur. Vi\u00f0urkenning felur \u00ed s\u00e9r a\u00f0 hinn fullor\u00f0ni leyfir barninu a\u00f0 vera „s\u00e9rfr\u00e6\u00f0ingur“ \u00ed eigin upplifunum og reynslu og sm\u00e1m saman a\u00f0 taka \u00e1byrg\u00f0 \u00e1 eigin \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0unum, eigin l\u00edfi. Hlustun er \u00fev\u00ed h\u00e9r \u00e1kaflega mikilv\u00e6g. \u00dea\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0ir a\u00f0 geta hlusta\u00f0 og heyra \u00fea\u00f0 sem raunverulega er sagt. Starfsmenn \u00feurfa a\u00f0 heyra \u00fea\u00f0 sem sagt er en ekki er s\u00ed\u00f0ur mikilv\u00e6gt a\u00f0 vera s\u00e9r me\u00f0vita\u00f0ur um \u00fea\u00f0 sem ekki er sagt. \u00dea\u00f0 sem ekki er sagt me\u00f0 or\u00f0um birtist \u00ed margv\u00edslegri l\u00edkamstj\u00e1ningu barnsins og \u00fear f\u00e6r starfsma\u00f0urinn mikla vitneskju um tilfinningar, \u00e6tlanir og vi\u00f0horf barnsins.<\/p>\n

Vi\u00f0 viljum leggja mikla \u00e1herslu \u00e1 a\u00f0 s\u00e9rhvert barn f\u00e1i s\u00e9rt\u00e6ka athygli og a\u00f0 einstaklingurinn og h\u00f3purinn sem sl\u00edkur spili vel saman \u00feannig a\u00f0 \u00feroskam\u00f6guleikar allra ver\u00f0i sem mestir.<\/span> <\/strong>Vi\u00f0 viljum leggja \u00e1herslu \u00e1 a\u00f0 leikur og starf fari saman og \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 leika s\u00e9r s\u00e9 gle\u00f0igjafi.<\/p>\n

LEIKURINN \u00c1 V\u00cdSD\u00d3M VEIT.[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row]<\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text] Samskipti eru mikilv\u00e6gasti \u00fe\u00e1tturinn \u00ed starfi leiksk\u00f3lans [\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]\u00dea\u00f0 a\u00f0 starfsf\u00f3lk hafi g\u00f3\u00f0 samskipti s\u00edn \u00e1 milli a\u00f0 starfsmenn beri vir\u00f0ingu fyrir hver \u00f6\u00f0rum og vinni saman \u00e1 jafnr\u00e9ttisgrundvelli me\u00f0 b\u00f6rnunum er mj\u00f6g st\u00f3r \u00fe\u00e1ttur \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 b\u00f6rnunum l\u00ed\u00f0i vel \u00edl leiksk\u00f3lanum. G\u00f3\u00f0 samskipti lei\u00f0a af s\u00e9r vell\u00ed\u00f0an b\u00e6\u00f0i fyrir fullor\u00f0na og b\u00f6rn, \u00dea\u00f0 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"parent":3061,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"footnotes":"","_wpscppro_dont_share_socialmedia":false,"_wpscppro_custom_social_share_image":0,"_facebook_share_type":"","_twitter_share_type":"","_linkedin_share_type":"","_pinterest_share_type":"","_linkedin_share_type_page":"","_instagram_share_type":"","_medium_share_type":"","_threads_share_type":"","_google_business_share_type":"","_selected_social_profile":[],"_wpsp_enable_custom_social_template":false,"_wpsp_social_scheduling":{"enabled":false,"datetime":null,"platforms":[],"status":"template_only","dateOption":"today","timeOption":"now","customDays":"","customHours":"","customDate":"","customTime":"","schedulingType":"absolute"},"_wpsp_active_default_template":true},"class_list":["post-3075","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vinaminni.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/3075","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vinaminni.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vinaminni.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vinaminni.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vinaminni.is\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3075"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.vinaminni.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/3075\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3622,"href":"https:\/\/www.vinaminni.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/3075\/revisions\/3622"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vinaminni.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/3061"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vinaminni.is\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3075"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}